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Sunday, February 20, 2011

Some wonderful summary of a HKU workshop from my friend's blog

These are all interesting stories that I want to share with you. And the passage is from my friend's blog.

1.  Entrepreneurship是光明大道?还是走投无路?高学历和低学历?是期待?还是just start?
2.  曾经一条街上有三家理发店,第一家店名了the best bubble shop in the country,于是生意就红了;后来,第二家店取名叫the best bubble shop in the world,于是第二家也来了客人。
     第三家理发店苦思冥想,最后就取了个名字叫 the best bubble shop in the street...
     最后第三家最红。。。
     It tells you to find your position, your identity. Finally, you will survive.
3. 问一个farmer附近的车站要走多少分钟?
    Farmer什么都不回答。。。只是打量着你。。。
    等我走开了,那个farmer yell that: "Twenty minutes!"
    FARMER说: 如果我没看你走多快,我怎么知道你要走多少分钟;你可能要20分钟,但我可能只需要五分钟。。。
    很脑残啊。。。还是一个道理,要往这个目标走了,不要想着有多长多远多艰难,走就是了。。这也是business...
4. 罗斯福在经济危机的时候家被洗劫了。。。
    于是,罗斯福说道:
    It is fortunate that our families are safe.
    It is fortunate that the thief cannot steal everything... (our furnitures are there...)
    最后一句确实经典:
    It is fortunate that the thief is not me...
so...enjoy the present...be optimistic...the same to all of us...
4. 你会跟你不一定最爱的人结婚,但如果结婚,你一定要爱她。。。
    然后,according to statistical data, over 80% of first-lover will break up...
    all right...it is nothing at all...

Saturday, February 19, 2011

The Second HC Retreat --- A Great Experience In My Life!

In 2011/2/12 , our HC office organizes the second time HC Retreat which gives me a deep impression.
Let me show the rundown to give a big picture to you!


                                                                       
9:00am   Arrival (gathering at the lobby of Macau Tower)
9:20am   Team Building activity (outdoor plaza)
9:45am   Skywalk X (level 61)
12:15pm  Lunch
2:00pm   Team Building exercise (outdoor plaza)
2:45pm   Rock Climbing (outdoor plaza)
4:15pm   Debriefing (outdoor plaza)
4:30pm   End


There is no doubt that the most important part in this retreat is the Skywalk X and this is what all most all the classmates thinking because Skywalk is the most exciting event in the retreat. But in my opinion, the most important part is the Rock climbing part. Of course, I put forward this idea after the retreat. So Let check it out why I think so!


Before 9am, we had arrived at the Macau Tower.White,Eunice,Diego and me share the same taxi.
The group photo before we start
Although we were the first team, the other classmates arrived very soon. It seems that we are all excited at the retreat and had a great expectation on it!
Happy people


By checking the rundown, we known we will do the skywalk on the top of the Macau Tower! Wow, it's really in the walk in the sky---about 233m!
The photos of Skywalk
After all the Hc member had arrived, we were separated into several teams to go to the outdoor plaza and do the team building activity. Again, it's like the team building activity we had done before in the class ---   the Marshmallow Challenge. So, i would not write too much on this activity. And it's still a funny process to build a team using the Marshmallow Challenge.

After the team was built, we started the most exciting part of the retreat. We went back into the Tower and take the lift to 61th floor to experience the skywalk.

I have to say the lift is very very very fast!! And it only used 40second to bring 15people to the 61floor.. Fast and safe.. finally we were on the top..
61th floor
The introduction of Skywalk


The lucky first group skywalker!


Our group-All brave men!(Lady first lar~)
Well, let's talk about why we came to the Macau tower to do the skywalk first.To be a leader, we need to have enough courage to overcome the things that we are afraid of. To go to the Macau tower, especially the 61th floor, we need to overcome the fear of height. Some of our classmates are afraid of height, actually, and they still go out of the tower walking on the edge of floor. To over something we are afraid of. That why we were in the top of the Macau tower. We did it.
The edge of the floor
In my opinion, what we have experienced is the feeling of overcoming something--the feeling of setting on the edge of 61th floor. To overcome the fear of things or situations, we accept them instead of controlling them. Yes, we accept that we are afraid of the height and yes, we are setting on the edge.

After the skywalk, we had our lunch in order to preparing for the afternoon. During the lunch, we asked many questions about the exchange and Dr.Udani always could  solve our question and provided the details to us. 
The cheese cakes is delicious!
At about 4pm, we go to the rock climbing area of the Macau tower.But before the rock climbing, two lucky guys in our class were enjoying the free Sky jump.It must be very exciting!
Two supermen!Lucky guys~
Well, go back to the rock climbing which is activity I think can be used to compare with the skywalk. Although not everyone can try the rock climbing.
Errol is fast and talent!
Errol is the first one who take the chance to do the rock climbing.He is fast and talent. And only spent 1min to reach the goal.Well,I really want to have a try but there was no opportunity for me. T-T
Not only boys! Girls can do it,too!
Of course, not only boys can take part in the rock climbing, girls can participate in, too. Because we are all dare to take chances when it comes to us.
It's obvious that not everyone can finish the rock climbing.But the one who had a chance to climb, they try as hard as they can. Like the manager said, it's not important to reach the aim but to try. Unlike other people, we dare to try and never to say no to the opportunity. I think I will never forget the things I have learned from the rock climbing. And I will remember the scene that a person who is climbing up and never give up! This is spirit which I think is most important to be success.   
Me and Eunice


I learned more from the rock climbing part. That why I think this part is the most impressive part in the retreat!


Above all, the second HC retreat is deserve to memorize. A Great Experience!

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Marshmallow Challenge In Today's Class

In today's class, we are in the Marshmallow Challenge team building activity which I think it's funny and it helps me to understand something about leadership in the reality.

Well,let's share some pictures first!

Me,Errol,Nuno and Aggie are in the same group~ I think our group is classic example because we are from different majors. I am from Business major. Errol and Nuno are from FST, and Aggie is from PSY Major. 

Although time we were running out of time, we finally made our "Tower" stood up ^.^ 
It's a funny experience to cooperate with teammates.

But after this funny game, Dr.Udani asked us if we had learned something from this activities.

Yes, from my aspect, I had practiced some ideas about leadership which have been in my mind for a long time.

In my opinion,a team is different from a group. Group has one leader, like an organize, but team does not have a particular one. In today's activity, actually i think we act like a team rather than a group. We every one take a  lead in one aspect. I was think about how to build a higher tower and how to save the materials. Nuno was thinking about the structure of the tower. Errol was considering how to make the tower stronger. and Aggie was preparing materials and stabling our emotion. Everyone in our team was leading in their advantage aspect.

Of course, this was the case when time was allowed. We made a plan.We made the discussions. But when time is limited, when a quick decision is needed, a leader is necessary. Leader should make decision base on the occasion. Whether time is available, how to use the remaining materials, and when should be made stronger were the problems we met today. Leader accelerated the progress when time is limited in order to reach the goal. This is also the model that the U.S.A have been using for long time when the U.S.A is in war.

So today, we first behaved like a team which I think can ensure the performance and then behaved like a group which can be guarantee the goal can be reach in time.



Marshmallow Challenge,funny but meaningful activity.

My Leadership Journey







Well,in this eassy,I have shared what's my understanding of leadership. I think a lot when i write this passage. I hope who sees it can share their opinions~ Wow, I love discussion!



My Leadership Journey
Leadership is important.
This is true no matter in our history or in our daily life. In the long run aspect, Leadership helps us make important processes and revolutions. And, in our daily, leadership makes many tasks done much more smoothly. Because of the special role of leadership towards human society, it’s necessary for those who want to be successful to learn leadership skills. Of course, I am the one of those people.

What’s the leadership all about?
In my opinion, leadership accompanies with goals and aims. I comprehend leadership from two aspect: Long run and short run. Seeing from the big picture and the long run, leadership is to improve the world we are living, is for a better world. Like the things have mention above, leaders helps to accomplish many goals and lead the revolutions in order to push the world towards a positive future and in the right track. But let’s see leadership in the narrow view, in the short run; however, in my opinion, it’s totally different. In the short run, leadership is mostly about management. Leadership helps to run organizations and organize activities. It not only helps to sharpen the vision of the organization but also motivates the team members. It’s the great power to boost the performance of the organization and complete the goal.  This is my understanding of leadership which make me believes that a leader should be good at management and also should be able to considerate blueprint and problems from long run aspect.

Qualities of an excellent leader
The charming of leaders is that leaders can have a great influence on others. Where the charming comes from? I think is from the qualities of the leader. Leaned from the psychology class, the Big 5 factors, the most important qualities of an excellent are extraversion; open to experience, and conscientiousness.
The leaders who are extravert will engage themselves more in organization. Especially their positive emotions and energy will have a positive effect on the organization.
The leader who is open to experience is much more likely to try new things and accept others’ advices. It relates to the company’s development and the job satisfaction of employees.
Conscientiousness is also important to a leader. The extent of successful of a company can be seen from the leader of the company. A leader who is conscientiousness, in other words, showing self-discipline, acting dutifully, and aiming for achievement, will lead the organization to a bright future.
These are the three factors that I think are the most important to a leader in big 5 theory. However, there are still several qualities that I think is important to an excellent leader such as integrity which means the integration of outward actions and inner values, creativity which means the ability of thinking differently and get the solution that beyond constrains, fairness which means to treat others consistently and justly, and final one, sense of humor which can be use to energize followers.
Behavior of an excellent leader
Leader can be an example of the company. What they do and how they work will have an effect on their subordinates. To be an excellent leader, you should be excellent on your behavior, too.
Challenging the process, inspiring a shared vision, enabling others to act, modeling the way, encouraging the heart are the road to great leadership that is common to successful leaders, and it’s also what I think a leader should meet.
Challenging the process is to find a process that you think needs improvement and use your creation to improve the process. The behavior seems to be unnecessary but it’s a really behavior that can lead a organization to a leading position. Failure is not important, trying is important.
Inspiring a shared vision is to share a vision in words that can be understood by followers. A vision is the soul of the organization. It’s necessary to have a common and clear vision throughout the organization in order to fulfill a common goal. To make the vision clear and known by the organization is what a leader should do---to inspire a shared vision.
Enabling others to act is to provide opportunity to followers to practice and solve problems. Relying on this behavior, leader can enrich the experience of followers and strengthen the power of the organization. Moreover, it’s the behavior that expressing trust to followers.
Modeling the way is to deal with problems by leader when the problem is really tough. It’s the way to set example, to show how the problem is done.
Encouraging the heart is to share the glory with the followers to encourage and inspire them to devote themselves into the common goal of the organization.
In addition, I think leader should have preparation all the time. Life is not easy and sometimes it’s tough. So does goals and tasks. To ensure to complete the goal, I think leader should have several backup plans.
An experience where I worked
I am now working in student’s union of university of Macau. The most joyful and painful experience I had is the election of student’s union. At that time, there are two cabinets competing with each other. I am new in my group and I only know two people of twenty-three. With the help of the leader whose name is Bunbun, I fitted in the cabinet very fast and became friends with all of them. Bunbun explained why we were here and also the vision of our cabinet. And then we prepared and began the election. In this period, we worked together almost every day from morning into the late night. It was a very hard time for me, actually. I had to take care of my study and I was new in honor college and I was in the election! But soon Bunbun found out this situation and encouraged me. Of course, 23 of us supported each other and at last we won the election. And now , our cabinet “spotlight” in charge of the student’s union and cooperate with each other for our common vision---serve the UM students.
Painful, well, it’s the pressure the student’s union gives to me. But the joyful is even more because of the cooperation and Bunbun’s sense of humor.
In this experience, what impressed me most is Bunbun’s sense of humor. His humor can motivate and let us feel better even the situation is bad or the work load is heavy. And through this lesson, many of us learn from Bunbun. We see things in a positive way and use our sense of humor to motivate ourselves and our teammates.
My experience as a leader
The most often experience I can demonstrate my leadership skill are the course projects. I have been being a leader of course project many times. The most impressive one is the EELC215 project. The mission of our group was to develop a poster and presented it to the whole class. I organized a meeting first to set the schedule and find out the advantage of each member in order to distribute the work properly. And after the meeting, we worked following the schedule and I would check if their work had done. I also organized them to have a discussion online and shared the outcome after a period. Like I have said, leadership accompany with goals. Though we have a schedule, but I also left several days in blank for emergency. As a leader in this project, I did not only organize them to work but also provide emotion support to them. When we were designing the poster, we came across some problems. And I was not familiar with that aspect. Though I cannot helped, I stayed with them until the problem was solved. After the project was done, our group members had fun together and we all proud of our outcomes.
What I have learned from this experience is that, leader is not omnipotent. In most of time, leaders have the job done assisted by professionals. When we cannot help, what we should do is to organize them and provide mental or physical support.

My own strengths as a leader
I have several as a leader. Firstly, I am integrity. I am the same on the outside and on the inside. What other can see is the whole me. So I am easily to get trusted. Secondly, I focus on fairness. Fairness is the important principle in my mind. Because I think fairness is beyond fairness. Fairness is related to trust and respect. Thirdly, I am conscientious. I have a great sense of dutiful, self-discipline, and high level of need for achievement. Goals are important in my life. Fourthly, I am open to experience. I like to try new things, new ways, new ideas. Because I believe that there is always a room for improvement. And we deserve to have a try.
My areas of improvement
What I need to improve is my communication ability and the behavior that I always try to do most of the job.
Communication ability is important for a great leader. A leader without good communication ability will weaken their influence. And also, their followers will misunderstand the vision or goal of the organization which may lead to a failure outcome. I am not fluent in oral English. And this is what I can improve.
My next disadvantage is that I always try to do the most of the job when I am a leader. A great leader should enable others to act through giving the method to the followers. It’s good for leader and followers both. Leader can save energy to other job and the followers can have more experience.

Concrete resolutions to be a better leader
Having mention about my weakness, I have several resolutions to be a better leader.
For my oral English, I will practice more to make progress. And I should take more chance in the class to try to ask or answer question. I will talk to my friend with English sometime. And I will also take chance of practicing oral English when I am preparing test.
For the problem that I am not enabling others to act, I will allocate the duties through discussion. And I will provide more chance to others to have a try.