An old story, an old question.

You are driving along in your car on a wild, stormy night, it's raining heavily....?

.... When suddenly you pass by a bus stop, and you see three people waiting for a bus:

1. An old lady who looks as if she is about to die.

2. An old friend who once saved your life.

3. The perfect partner you have been dreaming about.

Which one would you choose to offer a ride to, knowing very well that there could only be one passenger in your car?

Well, after asking many people about this question. Most of the people give the answer like "I will of course drive the old lady to the hospital first and miss my girl and old friend".

Finally, there is a good answer:

Get out of the car, ask the old friend to drive the old lady to a hospital and then drive himself home. I'll stay at the bus stop with my dream partner.

Yes, this is the answer which seems perfect: The old lady is saved, to let your old friend to do his job, and to be with your perfect partner.

The answer looks like very easy, but why we still need to ask so many people to get a good answer? 

I think it's because most of people choose to stay in the car instead of getting out of the car.Here, The car means the advantage of yourself.

If we want to gain more in our life, we need to try to get out of our advantage to have a try on new things. And then, may be we will find our new potential.

Otherwise, your life will be similar with asking this question without considering getting out of the car.You life will continue to be DULL.